Brutally honest things you need to know about dating a Libran

Well, let’s start with the good ones first. Librans are extremely generous when it comes to love… or even food. Unlike other sun signs like Virgo or Leo, they aren’t very to themselves when it comes to sharing and caring. If you have been wanting to take the chocolate cake from his plate that you have been eyeing, it is fine to take, because he will share and not fuss about it. This is one of their famous traits.

Well, if the guy is always saying ‘You pick the place’ or ‘You decide’, it doesn’t mean he is not interested in you. It just means that he is trying to tell you that he is not able to make up his mind on the place or the type of place. Yes, Librans are extremely indecisive when it comes to decisions on trivial matters. They wouldn’t mind asking you for suggestions which will make you feel good. Though this behavior could make or break your feel about them, you should get ready to make most of the decisions about dinner place or dating alternatives.

Appearance is deceptive, they say! Right? Well, yes! When it comes to Librans, they may look like extremely silent people, but they aren’t. They definitely take time to mingle along, but once they do, they are the social butterflies of the group. If your guy is going around talking to random people and making friends in a snap, that’s not abnormal! Don’t worry!

Needless to say, the above point proves why they aren’t solo flyers. Librans don’t like to stay alone a lot. This doesn’t mean mind space, this means physical space. They like to around a lot of people and can’t handle solo pressures. So if you are planning to meet them, meet them. A lot sometimes.

Librans are awesome when it comes to being objective and sound advice. Yes, they are one amazing sign who can tell you what you should be doing right or where you have gone wrong. People belonging to this scale are extremely great at looking things in a bright perspective. So if you want to get some advice on your office work or handling pressure, head directly to them. In fact, they love giving advices, so it makes your job easier.

Well, this could be both an advantage and a disadvantage for you. If you have been dating a Libran man for quite a while, check for this particular trait in him. Does he say no a lot? Or at least does he say sometimes? Now this is a no! Because, he is never going to say a lot of no. Libran men especially can take as much burden as they can or even more than what they can. They will have a list of 16 things on their to-do list and will still be okay to accommodate one more thing to their list. They will do it with a smiling face but, make sure you are their confidante because they will come crying to you or crib after they do all the work.

There are chances that they will push you off the terrace! Although, this sounds funny, they are a sun sign that hates criticisms. When they are assigned a work, they make sure that it is completed. But, if someone probes their ego, or keeps questioning them on their prowess, they sure are capable of erupting into a volcano. Dating a Libran? Well, good luck with choosing words then!

Yes, this could be annoying when it comes to relationships. But a Libran hates confrontations and when you are fuming, he would want to take a rain check. It could get worse sometimes. A Libran never is up for speaking things on their face when it’s their mistake. So, let’s face it! You have got to handle this in a much simpler and subtler manner. Explore with the way he talks, acts and take actions accordingly. Although he is never up for confrontations, he is a great listener. So, use that as your que to talk about your problems with him.

Yes, this could be a sword-neck situation if you are the careless one. They are always perfect and expect the same from others. If you are not the attention-to-little-detail kind of a person, try and be attentive when you are around him. At least acting helps!

Brutally honest but they do hold a grudge and never forget even the tiniest details of their life. You should know that anything you do that triggers them will have a snooze button, but will never be switched off in them. They still remember those childhood mishaps their parents did, the birthday you forgot to wish them. Their minds are like a board that has writings which can never be erased unless they want to. They have great control over their thoughts. So choose your actions very carefully.

Yes, if he has been dating you for quite a while, it is a sure sign that he loves you more than you do. Librans are amazing lovers. They don’t fall in love easily, but if they do, they never leave you just like that. They don’t have a wavering mind when it comes to love and they are extremely focused and committed. They never ever cheat or lie. They are great and passionate people when it comes to love and everything related to love. Yes, they may get a little over possessive sometimes, but you can change that definitely with your love and trust.

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-Pavithra Ravi