Signs that you should change your life

Sometimes in life, you don’t want to go to work and you don’t want to socialize. But that doesn’t mean that every day should be the same. If you are feeling the same every day, you are probably not working in the place you want to. Probably you don’t like the fact that you have to get up every day and look at the same people, work in the same place and work in the same atmosphere. So maybe, you should change your career, your job or look for something different. That could be one reason why you don’t like your job.

Going to work is something that not many of us like. Yes, everyday tensions, the paper work and stuff but end of the day, ask yourself if you are doing something satisfactory. Ask yourself if you have a smile at the end of the day and you like spending time at the office. If the answer is yes, then you are on the right path. If your answer is a no, then you are probably not in one and you need to change that about your life.

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If you are dreaming about the future or if you are thinking something about your past, then probably you are just living in the future or the past and avoiding the present which you should be focusing more on. Concentrating on the future or the past is just a weak sign of yours for avoiding what you have to deal with now. It isn’t wrong to dream something better about yourself, but the problem starts when your actions are not met in the real life and are neglected thinking that you have a better day to come. Starts acting out on the problems that you have now and then think about the future because only if you set your present, will your future be a brighter and better one.

If people are constantly telling you to relax and be relaxed, then it’s a sign that you should change your life. If you think that everyone says the same thing again and again, meaning, your friends, family and doctors keep telling you that you are worrying over something that isn’t even an issue and shouldn’t even be an issue, then you have to change your life. You need to get over certain things and relax is just a sugar coating the words.

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Jealousy isn’t bad. You can feel jealous about your sister, your relatives, friends or your colleagues. There is no harm in that. But if you are constantly jealous about their career, about their work and their appreciation, it just means that you aren’t trying hard enough to achieve something better in life. You are just feeling bad that you aren’t in their place or haven’t done something that they have done. What is your jealousy, telling you to do? Is it asking you to achieve something? Listen to your inner voice rather than pondering upon something that is outside.

If everything around you annoying and if everyone around you is irritating, it is not the people you need to change, it is the standard of thinking and the life that you live should be changed. You are constantly unhappy with others, their behavior, the things they do and you are focused more on why that irritates you. That is because you aren’t in a happy place and you don’t like what others are doing. So, it is not others you should be changing, it is the quality of life that you give yourself, should be changed.

There are many ways in which you can change your life and these are just a few examples!

-Pavithra Ravi